No one is perfect. We all make mistakes, especially in love. However, there are some conscious sins that should not be tolerated, no matter how much you love each other.
Although forgiveness is important for mature love, there are sins in love that you should not forgive under any circumstances.
1. The first conscious sin in love is adultery.
The first conscious sin in love that doesn’t deserve to be forgiven is adultery, not only physically but also emotionally.
Sadly, adultery is a mistake that many women accept to forgive, but certainly no one can completely forget.
This is an act of betrayal and disrespect.
Adultery shows that your partner doesn’t love you well enough, and there is no compelling justification for it.
2. The second conscious sins in love is the lack of respect.
The first thing women look for from their partner is the unconditional love. But they don’t know that love doesn’t exist without respect.
If your partner cannot respect you as a woman or a human being, then you should not think of forgiving him.
You should never feel like you are in a inferior position to your opponent. Your partner should respect your opinion, even if you are arguing. You should also never allow him to discriminate against you.
Every relationship, including love, is a two-way affair. Both have to give and receive.
A relationship cannot always put one person’s needs above the other.
If you want a happy and lasting love, both of you must get rid of the selfishness.
If the other person is selfish and doesn’t think for you, then he obviously isn’t ready to share his life with anyone.
Remember that harmony is the foundation of all happy relationships. If the other person never compromises, then you should not ignore it, forgive him.
4. The most terribly conscious sin you should never forgive is violence.
Last but not least, we should never forgive an act of violence.
Many women believe that they will only experience violence if an opponent physically attacks them. But there are many forms of violence such as mental, emotional or physical violence.
It is important to remember that an abuser does not change easily.
If the opponent hits you once, he will most likely repeat this action for the second or third time, no matter how he promises.
Don’t think you’re so sensitive or overreacting. If you feel abusive, it is violence and you need to be brave out of the relationship right away.
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